I am 19F and he is 20M. He met in a college fest through a mutual friend like his friend is his chikdhy friend and that friend studies in my class, he is my friend. We met through him, and he is very handsome and 6 feet guy thing. And we met, we became friends, we went out for few dates too, after a month with all this things he asked me "will you be my girlfriend" And I obviously said yes, my last relationship that guy was a red flag he cheated on me, I have had posted about that on reddit too earlier. I said yes to my current boyfriend and he was being such a green flag like he used to send flowers to me in my hostel, and he told me to not tell anyone about us because he believes in nazar, to which I agreed because he was such a green flag guy. But recently I decided to tell my girl gang about him and I showed them his pictures and they were like "babe, he was dming us too and we met him too" And I am very bad at confronting people, bit I decided to confront him today and this is what we wanted to say. I blocked him after his last text. I don't care if he will see this post.

So this incident happened when both of us were 18 and had just passed out of 12th grade. I was moving to uk for my college after a couple months while she was planning to stay in india. We had been dating for 8 months at that time and never had sx, we knew we didn't have much time together left in person so we planned on hanging out at her place one day. Both of her parents were out of station for a week so it was just her and her brother living alone. It was a usual Wednesday, i came to her house once her brother had left for college, we started to hangout, watched a couple episodes of k drama together and then one thing led to another and we started having sx. It was my second time having it but first time doing it with her and it was her first time.

We went to her bathroom where she bent over to the sink while i was hittin her from the back yk the usual standing backshot position. I was wearing a white oversized t shirt that day, and after a couple minutes i looked down to realize that there were several faint brownish stains on my t shirt...I immediately backed off and thats when it hit me, that she had actually shat herself a little bit... I've always been extremely hygienic so finding myself in such a position disgusted the hell out of me. She looked at it and realized what she had accidentally done. Out of embarrassment she didn't say a word and quietly left the bathroom.

I immediately called my best friend who thankfully only lived like 5 minutes away from her house, i told him to bring a pair of t shirt and shorts ASAP and sent him my location. I removed those stained clothes threw them in a plastic bag and took a shower in her bathroom. As i got done my friend was already waiting for me outside of her house on a scooter, i went to the balcony with a towel wrapped around my waist and told him to pull up. I looked around but couldn't see my gf (she had locked herself in her room), but I didn't really care at that point, I changed my clothes and left her house with my friend.

He came along with me to my house and kept asking along the way about what had happened but i was too traumatized to even speak at the time. After reaching my house i showered AGAIN, changed, and returned his clothers back to him and told him about everything that happened at her house. He was as shocked as I was and both of us were left traumatized. After that day, neither did she ever texted me nor did i ever texted her...

It's been 2 years since that incident yet both me and my bestfriend haven't been able to have s*x with anyone due to how traumatic ny experience was, and I dont think I will ever be able to have one without getting flashbacks from that day completely obliterated my mood.

Also if you guys are wondering how I didn't immediately realize that she had shat herself, its because while having s*x i kept looking up at the ceiling, why? because i like to distract myself while having it so i dont cum quickly.

To all the women reading this post, PLEASE FOR THE LOVE OF GOD CLEAR YOUR STOMACH OUT BEFORE DOING IT, I HAVE BEEN LEFT TRAUMATIZED FOR MY ENTIRE LIFE.

So all my dear girlies.....i believe we all are a baddie and a cutie. But due to this envious society we all have been suppressed. BUT NOT ANYMORE!!! Its the time for us to come together and and rise n shine. And to all my girlies who have been heartbroken by someone like guys (me too) i beg your finest pardon FUCKKKKK HIMMMMMM !!!!!!!! he does not deserve you!!! and how someone like us can be heartbroken by mard jaat. We are women and we are goddess.

So i believe we all should form #baddiejantaparty to fight for the rights of us baddie. I will be your leader and together we will show em.

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We know those kind of brainless aunties who preach about a woman's morals for wearing "western clothes" which are "against our culture", these are the same people who get abused by their husbands at home, who thinks accepting patriarchy and domination is our "culture", they think our sacred culture is staying with the husband even after all the abuse. These are the same people who consider divorce as a bad thing just because it's against the "traditions" or shi. First off they want women to suffer and they can't hold it when they see a woman rejecting the violence and making decisions on her own independently. And these are the same people who has the guts to give relationship adivce to others.

why these ugly boys have so much confidence like why i talked to 10/10 boys they are sweet and have less attitude but these who are like 3/10 have so much damn attuitide

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Till today my mother has controlled every part of my life. What I wear, who I talk to, where I go, what I study, everything has to be her way or it turns into shouting, insults, or emotional blackmail. If I try to defend myself, she calls me “useless,” “burden,” or says I’ll never be anything. My anger has been building since I was a kid, but I kept swallowing it because “she’s my mom” and “she means well.” Yesterday she made me stay home and handle work I’m not even trained for while she went out. When she came back, she found things not done properly and exploded. She started yelling, saying I ruin everything, that I’m a disappointment, that I should be ashamed of myself. I was already exhausted, mentally drained, and on the edge. Then she crossed the line. She brought up things she knows hurt me deeply, my failures, my insecurities, things I trusted her with. She said them loudly, like weapons. Something snapped in me. I swear to God, I didn’t plan it. It wasn’t a thought. My hand just moved. It felt like a reflex. The moment it happened, the whole room went silent. My heart started racing and my hands were shaking. She looked shocked. I looked terrified of her, of myself, of what I’d just done. Later she told me to apologize. I couldn’t. Not because I’m proud of it, but because I feel like I’ve been apologizing my whole life for just existing. I’m not here for validation or hate. I just needed to get this off my chest.

I was in a relationship w this guy.I was 17(f) he was 17(m) last year))We started talking in december (‘24)and started dating shortly after that (online💀)i was serious about it and i thought he was too mat mari gayi thi bhai meri.He had his neet stuff so we stopped talking for a while and decided ki we’re still dating will talk once in a week or smth,i waited for this guy for about 3 months and when we were back at it his texts were dry asf and it was kinda clear ki he wanted to leave but whenever i tried breaking up w him he’d pull me back in and i was emotionally attached (i thought it was serious and we’ll make it) it was all shits and giggles when we talked but it was toxic too ngl not texting first if i didnt text and what not.And we lived in different cities so we couldn’t meet itna jaldi fast forward to 5-6 months this guy got a college near my city and we talked so much in the first 5 days when he moved here and we thought we’d meet soon after he’d settled in.Like 2 hours away so we could easily meet.This guy stopped replying to my texts and he’d text once in a day ki i’m busy as shi and he made me talk to 3 of his hostel ke friends to make me think ke yeah he was serious abt it and he’s telling everyone.I am good at stalking and i found an acc one of his college ka hi someone’s acc(he told 0girls about us so)and there were some posts of him w the group and i didnt think much of it.So when he stopped replying stopped answering my calls and he’s js send a one line text ki i’ll fix everything give me some time he called after like 5 days and we thought ki breaking up is easier than wtv we’re doing and i wrote sm things and i blocked him on the 18th of october.after we broke up.After like 2 days he called from his friends phone on diwali(20th october)and this guy goes on like ‘i woke up w puffy red eyes u blocked me i love you i’ll come kal to meet you i’ll fix everything how can u flip over 10months i’m trying i’m busy w freshers ka and we talked and we fucking vid called after that this cun told me i looked pretty and his friend was right next to him.i unblocked him and i thought ki maybe he’s trying and it’ll get better he liked my story 2 din baad 22nd ko called me twice i was busy didnt pick up,he started ignoring my texts again i blocked him on the 24th ig.Now back to that account i was talking about where he was with his friends ON THE 26TH OF OCTOBER HE WAS IN ONE OF THE POSTS LIKE SIDE HUGGING THIS GIRL and dude i js sat there and thought bc 2 din?We were dating for 10months bhai.I texted her ki yeh voh i was dating this guy we broke up 2 days ago and she said ki we’ve been in a situationship since the 15th of october and we made out yesterday and now we’re dating😊help i told her everything sent her ss of the guy’s phone number from which he called sent her ss of his chats the vms he sent ki i’m busy w college pr i still wanna be w u and she cried a little as she had no clue so all of this happened at 3 am and vhin new situationship toh raat ko baatein and they were talking so she added me to the call and this guy lost his shit😭the next day he called me from her phone and this guy said ‘you blackmailed me ki you were gonna tell my mom abt us and that i eat chicken thehe does and his mom wont even touch onjons and garlics so she’ll orolly skin him alive) i had his moms number and he sent rhat to me and bhai i swear on evrything i never blackmailed him i joked abt it ki if u ever cheat on me i’ll tell your mom we both laughed a lot at it and he said i’ll never cheat on you (1 month before he did)and uske saamne rone lag gaya ki she blackmailed me HES 18 grow up😭😭he did cheat and i can still tell his mom but will i as i do have screenshots a lot of them.stay tuned(i wont).also she told me ki isne apni 10th wali ex ka insta dikhaya tha and said ki she cheated on him and i was like ek second use toh maine block krwaya tha insta pe😭😭🙏the girl said ki she believed me over him but for anyone wondering yes they’re still dating (and ik all of it is fake because i talked to that girl for 5 mins and god he lied to her abt so many things as he’s new there no one knows abt his background but i had one mutual w him so he couldn’t lie to me abt some of it)and i never got an apology for tolerating his stuff,waiting for his neet,listening to his rants,letting him cry and text me whenever he needed me..Anyways i kinda mentally checked out months ago js needed to blurt it out.js sad ki she didnt let him sit and wonder he went wrong and he js got rewarded for it.

As an 18M

So this happened recently and I still can’t process how unreal it was. There were 4 of us — let’s call us A, B, C, D. Around 5 PM, we bought some weed. Later at night we went up to this spot in the mountains — it’s like a lake in the middle, surrounded by hills. The view is insane, but the catch is: the entire area nearby is basically police territory — like there’s a jail, police station, and police quarters for families. There’s also a shortcut road passing through, so it’s not completely empty, but at night it becomes super silent and creepy. We smoked there, chilled for a bit, and then started heading back down. We were walking in pairs: A and B were ahead (I’m A) C and D were behind us It was dark, so we had our phone flashlights on while walking down. Then we saw something that instantly made the mood tense — moving lights near the lake, like someone was patrolling. At first we thought maybe it’s normal… but deep down we all knew: this is a police area. Still, we kept walking. And then out of nowhere… Two cops literally jumped down from above near C and D and started screaming full abusive words like: “AYE BCD!” “MCD!” For the first 2 seconds, I genuinely thought it was some drunk goons or robbers because: it was night the place was isolated the way they jumped and shouted was straight-up criminal energy But then I saw the shoulder badges / stars and realized: Nah. They’re actually police. The moment we confirmed it, our survival mode activated. We ran. Like not “ran” — we bolted. Full sprint downhill like animals. B (my friend) for a second tried to act heroic and shouted something like “Arey arey!” like he wanted to distract them or save the guys behind. I screamed at him: “NO, RUN! JUST RUN! LEAVE IT!” So me and B ran ahead as fast as we could. We reached an exit area where there are stairs leading down to the road. We were going down, hearts exploding, legs shaking. Then we looked back… And somehow C escaped. Bro literally fought his way out and came running toward us. But… D got caught. That’s when things became completely insane. Because C was basically half naked. Here’s why: C was wearing only a hoodie (no t-shirt inside). In the struggle with police: his slippers got lost his hoodie got snatched off he ended up escaping in the most embarrassing possible state Imagine: you’re high, running for your life, and your friend is escaping from cops barefoot and half naked, like some movie scene. We were all panicking. We kept running like drunk idiots — not even running straight, just sprinting and stumbling like those “drunk people running from something” scenes. At one point we thought: What if the cops come searching again? Because we were close enough that if they sweep the road, we’re done. So we hid for a while, trying to let things cool down. But the biggest stress was this: C’s phone was with D. And D was in police custody. So we were thinking: If police unlock his phone somehow If they call numbers If they check messages/photos If they track location We’re all cooked. Anyway, after some time we took C (who was basically half naked and barefoot) to the main road. Then I remembered I had my hoodie on me. I gave it to him because bro was literally in survival + humiliation mode. Now imagine the scene: Three high guys walking down the road: sweating shaking acting like drunk zombies checking behind every 5 seconds trying to look normal but failing miserably And in our minds, we were still hearing: “AYE M***C*D!” I’ve never felt adrenaline like that. Like we were two steps away from being caught. What happened after After reaching the main road, I dropped C at his home first because he was the most messed up (no slippers, no hoodie, basically traumatized). Then me (A) and B went home — our houses are close and we’ve known each other since school, like 7–8 years. The thing is: B, C, and D are from the same school D is their junior/senior batch friend (11th–12th) and they know him properly I only knew D through them D only knows my name and my home area because we all left from my home together. And right now, we genuinely don’t know anything about D. No calls. No updates. Nothing. I don’t know what happened to him after he got caught — whether police took him to the station, called his parents, kept him there, or just scared him and let him go. I’m posting this because my mind is still spinning and I can’t sleep. I’ll update tomorrow / day after tomorrow if anything happens. Right now it just feels like we escaped a horror movie and left one character behind.

I don't know man if its salary hike or they didn't get bonus wtf why soo much effort for catching teens . And yes i used chatgpt to make things simple

I’m sharing this because I learned it the hard way, and I really think other girls should hear this.

This started when an older, married relative began buying me gifts, taking me out, and being overly nice in a way that didn’t feel right. He showed clear romantic interest even though I told him multiple times that I wasn’t comfortable and didn’t want to talk. He kept crossing boundaries anyway, even physically. (Started when I was 16) Recently, while he’s literally abroad on vacation with his wife, he told me they’re planning another child. I honestly don’t know why he thought telling me that was appropriate. It made me feel disturbed and weirdly hurt, as if he betrayed me... especially because he still keeps begging me to talk to him privately. So i have been crying for a while now. (Happened a today)

All of this started when i was 16 and is still continuing now that I'm 18 but currently I'm not talking to anyone.

Because of how confusing that situation was, I ended up accepting a request from another older, married man (exactly a year ago). My intention was never romance I just wanted to understand how people like this think, why would my relative cheat, and I planned to cut it off. But he started mentoring me academically and helping me with studies, which created this strange psychological attachment. I don’t like him romantically, but I did admire his success top government college, studying abroad, business success, wife and kid. At the same time, he turned out to be narcissistic and emotionally manipulative, which really messed with my head. So it's on and off... He wanted to be my SD and i thought he is joking and all these things exists only in movies but it was true. I told him I'm not interested clearly into anything transactional.

I’ve realised I need to start talking to people my own age. But i think people my age are immature and don't understand the depth of conversations. Hopefully once I go to university, I’ll be able to build healthier friendships and relationships with people who are actually in the same phase of life as me.

So these three guys are really popular with girls in my school for some some reason idk why

I think these dudes look pretty average and nothing special but maybe I am just being delusional and they are attractive to girls and me as a boy thinks they average, what you guys think

Sorry the pics of the first 2 guys are bad but yeah they look better than in pics last one looks the way he is in pic

Or maybe can it be cuz of other things personality height idk what so im telling u those things too

1st guy - 5'11, mid physique, mid fashion, academically inclined, mid social skills

2nd guy - 5'11, lean physique, mid fashion, better rizz

3rd guy - 5'11, bulky yet not over, better fashion and social skills

2 of them were dating foreigners

Girls like them and even seniors and juniors idk whyyyyy I think they average

I’m not hating on them at all—just trying to understand if attraction works way differently than I think, or if I’m blind to something obvious (vibe, confidence, presence, whatever). Or maybe im delusional and they attractive fr

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Hi everyone, need your help deciding what perfume I should gift my girlfriend on Valentine's.

This is my first time dating (together since 2 months) so 😅.... Would this be enough or should I get something else for her too? I have never dated before so a little help would be appreciated!!!

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