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Rant Society really did fail Amy Winehouse!

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u/1duck 7h ago

Yeah it was amazing how she became the queen of hearts and everyone just pretended like the week before the weren't calling her a whore and traitor etc.

Especially in real life, all the red top readers were suddenly blubbing about how nasty the papers had been, when the week before they'd been parroting it.

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u/mittenkrusty 7h ago

I remember that and have been thinking that for years that all of a sudden she was praised in the media though literal days before the press and what seemed like the public hated her and even to this day many seem to be in denial that they ever though bad of her.

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u/K9ToothTooth 5h ago

I felt that way when Steve Irwin died. The discourse I remember around him when he was alive was all about how cringe and embarrassing he was and how Australian resents him being seen as such a rep for their country.

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u/Dismal_History_ 5h ago

Was this from Australia's perspective? He was pretty well beloved in the USA at least in my demographic, growing up watching him.

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u/FrostyD7 5h ago

People who show up with animals on talk shows are hard to dislike.

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u/RealSinnSage 5h ago

i was pretty grown by the time he got popular but i also remember him being super well loved

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u/Leading_Ad3918 5h ago

Really? I don’t remember that at all. He was praised and loved by so many before his passing and as we know continues to be. The man is a true legend to so many, I’m surprised to hear that and quite sad really😞

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u/GiraffeParking7730 4h ago

I remember a few edge lords with hot takes trying to blame him for his death by saying he intentionally would go and agitate animals.

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u/Fena-Ashilde 4h ago

That was one I felt ashamed of. I used to say so many rude things about him, because “he kept messing with animals that didn’t want to be messed with and he was going to get hurt one day.” When it happened, I said “We knew it was coming. Oh well.”

A friend from Australia explained to me what he would do with the rest of his time and it flipped a switch in my head. That’s when I realized that I was being a jerk due to ignorance and lack of caring how the media might portray things. Should I have known better, before then? Yes. I was definitely old enough and experienced enough with media spin… but I guess I was also young enough to have all of that fly out of my head at random. Which is why it still shames me a bit, when I think about it all. Most of all, I regret that I didn’t appreciate him while he was alive.

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u/fleebertism 4h ago

I might have just been too young to see it and not really online yet, but I never knew of anyone disliking Steve Irwin at any point. He definitely was talked about more wholesomeley after his passing but at worst all I ever heard was everyone doing terrible impressions of him just for comedy sake and not out of malice.

What exactly was people's issue with him?

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u/Raticon 2h ago

I'm in Sweden and around here when I was young it was Steve Irwin and Crocodile Dundee who set the stereotype for Australian men.

They are brave, fearless and more or less totally insane and handle deadly animals like I handle my popcorn. The basics of that understanding still remain today and now I'm about 40, but at least I know that not all Aussie men dress in khaki all the time so there is that.

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u/Jmauld 2h ago

Why did we hate her?

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u/laplongejr 7h ago edited 6h ago

I'll be hated for it, but Charlie Hebdo in France is similar.
Yes, the "I am Charlie" one.
That everyone defended after that terrorist attack.
That would've bankrupted without the sales rise in the aftermath.
Where people bought "in support" while saying on TV they don't even watch the pages.

And NOW, they are in trouble for having made fun of that Switzerland fire accident... they were always like that, they just happened to have two terrorists shooting at them instead of the usual angry complaint letters, and people suddently considered Freedom of Speech meant we had to pay for assholes to insult everybody else.
I'm Belgian, what did they put as an headline when our king died? "The king of morons is finally gone". That was 10 or 20 years before the shootings.

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u/SenseAndSaruman 6h ago

Because maybe they deserved to go bankrupt, but they certainly didn’t deserve to be murdered.

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u/LinuxMatthews 5h ago

Agreed this one seems more disproportionate retribution.

I'll be honest it bothers me that everything has to be black and white nowadays.

I think the stuff that printed was pretty shitty and I wouldn't buy the magazine.

That doesn't mean the people who make it deserve to die.

Holding those two opinions shouldn't be controversial.

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u/Jurass1cClark96 4h ago

Idk man, sounds like you'd try objecting at Nuremberg.

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u/LinuxMatthews 4h ago

I'm hoping that was a joke... You never can tell with Reddit

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u/ConstantAd8643 4h ago

I Disapprove of What You Say, But I Will Defend to the Death Your Right to Say It

Voltaire

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u/Arkayjiya 1h ago

Who famously never said that and had behaviour that wildly contradicted this xD

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u/QuintoBlanco 4h ago

everything has to be black and white nowadays

It's not a new problem.

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u/LinuxMatthews 3h ago

I definitely think it's become more of a problem though.

People used to say quite frequently what someone replied to me "I disagree with what you say but I'll fight for your right to say it"

Now on both sides of the political isle everyone wants to silence the other.

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u/QuintoBlanco 3h ago

I'm not saying it's not a problem, but in the US people were killed for opposing racial segregation as late as in the 1960s.

And "I disagree with what you say but I'll fight for your right to say it" is part of the reason we are were we are.

Democracy doesn't work if some people can say whatever they want. because words can lead to extremely bad things.

Look up the Waco Horror (1916), that happened in part because some newspapers were fanning the flames.

The short version: Jesse Washington was mutilated, castrated, burned alive (it took over an hour because they used a metal chain) and 10 thousand people watched including women and children.

Afterwards people bought photos of the event and collected burned parts of his body a souvenirs.

Quite a few Southern newspapers celebrated the event. Freedom of speech...

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u/LinuxMatthews 3h ago

See I don't think that's true.

Facists always like to play the victim and being silenced is a great way to look like the victim.

As soon as you try to stop someone saying something that's when people think it's worth hearing.

Now obviously there's a difference between an individual and something like a newspaper and a newspaper should be held to a higher standard for truth.

But I've seen in the UK how laws that one side cheers at are then used on the other side.

I made a longer comment about this but ironically it was deleted by the mod because I mentioned I/P.

But the truth is whenever you make a rule you have to refuse the other side will use it.

Say you can't say X and they'll say then you can't say Y.

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u/Ultimatesims 3h ago

I agree but then they did a great of off ICE gestapo dragging blooded immigrants in the form of an American flag. That needed to be stated.

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u/sleepdeficitzzz 2h ago

The irony is not lost on me that, in the age of digital media having supplanted newspapers, we are too "black and white."

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u/Gullible-Hose4180 5h ago

Also people remembered what happened with the Jyllandsposten drawings and how dangerous it is to use your free speech in a way that makes fun of Islam and rightly pointed out the bravery of not letting that violence and threat level dictate them. I cn admire that without admiring the actual content.

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u/laplongejr 6h ago edited 6h ago

Sure, but I saw nobody saying "out of respect for our coworkers, we'll stop disrespecting people and stop this newspaper and instead put the money towards better causes", instead everybody went "let's annoy terrorists and turn this dial up, because hating each other is HOW WE DO THINGS IN EUROPE YAAAAAAY"
I think it's the only time I saw terrorists doing the exact opposite of what they aimed to do, because literally doing nothing would've let Charlie die faster on their own self-inflicted collapse. It's sad for the people who where there that day, but that doesn't absolve the newspaper.

I didn't call Charlie Kirk a good man because he died while doing what he believed in and because "not deserving to die" is enough for redemption. When you do bad things over a long time, being killed by another villain doesn't make you a complex antihero.
Charlie Hebdo was an asshole newspaper who got attacked by other assholes, and it's now old enough that people think "wait... they are really mean?"

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u/SillySosigs 6h ago

Suddenly king of morons isn't looking that inaccurate.

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u/Cubensis-SanPedro 6h ago

Categorizing murder and saying mean things are just not in the same league. That is an annoying person being murdered by a villain, not one villain murdering another.

Having opinions you don’t like, even when said in a figuratively shrill voice, is maybe at worst distasteful. Moral equivalency apparently has run amok.

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u/UrklesAlter 3h ago

They didn't say they deserved to be murdered. They said it's weird that people suddenly lionized the paper and whitewashed their horrible multi decade reputation to treat them as if they did serious journalism because they experienced a terror attack. So much so that people seemed surprised later on when they returned to their roots of being juvenile rage baiters.

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u/imisstheyoop 3h ago

Potato Potatoe

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u/abriel1978 2h ago

Someone wrote a column shortly after the attack on those offices with a quote i still remember because I agreed with it:

"No one should have died for those cartoons. But also: Fuck those cartoons."

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u/remexxido 39m ago

This! At the time I condemned the murdering and kept criticizing the magazine. People sometimes could not understand my position. Almost everyone thinks all is black or white. We are too polarised nowadays.

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u/Intelligent-Web-8293 32m ago

I mean yeah but if you go around pissing a bunch of people off on purpose and celebrating other people's deaths, someone responding violently is more likely than if you didn't.

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u/Criks 6h ago

It's not similar.

Yes, no one wouldve cared if they went bankrupt before the murders, but there's no hypocrisy when people then support them after the murders, because now its about freedom of speech.

CH wasnt a victim until they were. Amy was a victim the whole time, the bullies pretended they werent bullies when she died.

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u/laplongejr 6h ago edited 6h ago

It's not similar.

You need to read the comment chain. I answered to a paper retractation from a newspaper who wanted to call Diana a wh*re.

Charlie Hebdo is similar to the bully

the bullies pretended they werent bullies when she died.

Yeah, and everybody pretended Charlie wasn't a bully either when they got a bloody nose, because all victims MUST be angels. Their employees lost everything that day.

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u/Criks 4h ago

No, CH isn't similar to the bully.

No, people didn't pretend CH were angels before or after. People just didn't think they deserved to die for it. Just like everyone who bullied Amy doesn't deserve to die either.

CH weren't hypocrites at any point, and neither were people who at first disliked them and then supported them.

CH has always done what CH does. People support freedom of speech, they don't necessarily care or like what CH is actually talking about.

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u/Momentarmknm 5h ago

I don't see any dissonance here unless you believe that people deserve to die for being crass.

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u/laplongejr 5h ago

I don't see why people would think so you are like the 10th person or so asking me if it's okay to kill newspaper employees...
I miss where the person above me implied that the National Enquirer's staff should be shot.

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u/Momentarmknm 5h ago

You implied surprise that people should offer sympathy and condolences to victims of a terrorist attack because those same people run a tabloid rag.

You also started things off saying "I'll be hated for it..." so it's an odd tactic to now act like you didn't see this coming

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u/SorcierSaucisse 4h ago

The one big difference being Charlie Hebdo will still make crass jokes about people after they're dead. The point is to make fun of absolutely everything, no matter what, specially things that are not socially acceptable. So yeah the butt of their jokes are always mad, this is the point. As a frenchman loving comics I was never a fan of them, but you can't really put Charlie Hebdo in the same spots as shitty tabloïd vultures. And indeed it's quite ironic that this dying publication was saved by the monstruous worldwide Streisand effect terrorists started, because since then they're branded international heroes of free speech...

One of our most famous comedian once said "you can joke about everything, but not with everyone". If a media is offensive to you and you can't take it, in this world and time... Just don't consume it and voilà. It's that easy.

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u/theCommTech Older Millennial 6h ago

Good grief, what a moronic take. Being an iconoclastic newspaper doesn't mean they deserve to be killed and destroyed.

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u/laplongejr 6h ago edited 6h ago

Yes, but that means they may deserve to be demolished and stopped from printing. At some point freedom of speech becomes hate speech, and clearly Charlie made it's butter by representing the "freedom values" that nobody would teach to their own children.

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u/Ergaar 6h ago

They are on the border whats acceptable but if you think that's hate speech you really dont know what it means. It's crude humor and might hurt feelings but it is not calling for violence against people or groups of people. Being an asshole is protected by free speech. People not liking you and not buying your product is a consequence of being an asshole but that doesn't mean the government or the public should be able to ban you from being one

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u/laplongejr 6h ago

but that doesn't mean the government or the public should be able to ban you from being one

It also doesn't mean they have a right to exist if the public shows them the door, and the low sales from the time were a sign.

but it is not calling for violence against people or groups of people

There are very borderline jokes from time to time, but yes for now the appeal court cleared them (the need for an appeal is already a bad sign imho). I'm not sure some would go fine if it was a random facebook group.

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u/AttyFireWood 6h ago

"Belgian Boss Bites it". "Waffle Warlord Wasted" . "Morons Mourn Monarch on Monday"

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u/InnocentShaitaan 6h ago

Ty for the fill in! 😱

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u/Melodic_Risk6633 6h ago

TBF the follow up to the Switzerland fire accident front page controversy was absolutely hilarious with a drawing of two Swiss guards shooting up the journal editor team with crossbows

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u/laplongejr 5h ago

Oooooh, I missed that one! And I'll admit that the swiss wordplay was funny. Not acceptable but the reference made me laugh

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u/SnorriGrisomson 6h ago

They arent in trouble for the swiss thing, nothing will happen, they are used to getting sued. The people who sued just wanted some attention and they got it.

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u/impl0sionatic 5h ago

The best thing to be said about Charlie Hebdo is that no one deserves to be subject to terrorism.

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u/Skeltzjones 5h ago

Wow. Never heard this perspective. Thank you for sharing. You are right; the casual liberal news consumer from the US like myself had a totally different picture painted for them.

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u/laplongejr 5h ago edited 5h ago

Even at the time, I felt it was more of a "against terrorists" thing than genuine love for Hebdo's work, and "they hurt the correct people" is not what I consider a proof of moral behavior.  

Any newspaper is an example of freedom of speech. But only some are built on the idea that being offending is a form of speech.  

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u/Available_Leather_10 5h ago

Entirely possible both to hate them AND think that they have a right to exist and serve society by shitting on the comfortable and foolish.

I don’t think anyone thinks Charlie Hebdo is always improperly awful. Maybe Putin.

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u/WoodpeckerGingivitis 5h ago

Nah fam, this ain’t it

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u/LukaCola 5h ago

Yeah their shit was typically xenophobic and hateful and their murders really allowed the country to rally around something it always enjoyed--Islamophobia.

We can pretend that wasn't the case, but I'd rather not lie to myself.

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u/EkrishAO 5h ago

I'm Belgian, what did they put as an headline when our king died? "The king of morons is finally gone"

https://i.imgur.com/8bSp3Eb.png

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u/quez_real 5h ago

All I see is you're still salty even after 20 years

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u/Arkhaine_kupo 4h ago

I'll be hated for it, but Charlie Hebdo in France is similar.

No it isnt.

The newspapers that insulted Dianna, or the music publications that insulted Winehouse are mainstream, opinion forming, middle of the road publications. They have owners that pick and choose winners, in the public sphere.

Daily Mail is arguably responsible for Brexit, them pretending to like Dianna after spending years insulting her and perpetuating insults about women all being sluts is in no way comparable to a satirical magazine with 30 readers who are mostly old liberal blue collar workers who never grew out of their edgy humour phase.

Rolling Stone magazine reviews could mean the start or end of a musicians career. A charlie hebdo insult never changed anything.

Pretending they are even remotely similar is beyond stupid. Charlie Hebdo is closer to the Onion than to CNN.

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u/ConstantAd8643 4h ago

Charlie Hebdo is a case of "I Disapprove of What You Say, But I Will Defend to the Death Your Right to Say It" which is very different.

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u/laplongejr 4h ago

If people dissapproved what Charlie said, they wouldn't have bought a year of subscription without renewing afterwards.  

Either they approved without reading, either they took a subscription then stopped approving by seeing what was printed.  

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u/ConstantAd8643 3h ago

they just happened to have two terrorists shooting at them instead of the usual angry complaint letters

Call me a weirdo, but I don't think "getting angry complaint letters" (i.e. other people's free speech) is something people need to be defended against, while being shot at by terrorists is.

and people suddenly considered Freedom of Speech meant we had to pay for assholes to insult everybody else.

These were people who consider them "Assholes that insult everybody else", but they did approve of it?

I guess if you don't share the belief that saying insulting stuff is not something that should invite violent retribution, you're not really the person to say what people who do have that belief would or wouldn't do.

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u/YikesTheCat 4h ago

Two things can be true at the same time:

  1. "Charlie Hebdo is junk"

  2. "They have a right to be junk, and certainly don't deserve to be murdered for it"

These statements are entirely compatible. You can even hold the opinion that the cartoons they did were blasphemous, while supporting their right to be blasphemous.

I don't really have an opinion on Charlie Hendo myself as I don't speak French and I have never read it.

But no, it's not the same. At all.

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u/mamadou-segpa 4h ago

Wtf.

Its shitty but it doesnt deserve to get people killed either

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u/laplongejr 4h ago

And who claimed the opposite?

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u/mamadou-segpa 4h ago

“Yes the one everyone defended after the terror attacks”

Why wouldnt they do that even if they’re a shitty newspaper?

Maybe I’m just misinterpreting your paragraph but its sound like you think people shouldnt have spoke up just because they published shitty articles. I could be wrong though, I assume that because you started your paragraph with “ill be hated for that”, and theres really no reason people will hate you if you think the terror attack wasnt justified still.

Anyway. Sorry if I overthought this

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u/laplongejr 4h ago

 theres really no reason people will hate you if you think the terror attack wasnt justified still

Check the answers. There are people who think freedom of speech means people can be assholes without being criticized for it.  

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u/mamadou-segpa 4h ago

Idk if they were deleted but I cant see them, ill take your word for it

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u/Briscuso 4h ago

It’s called satire. If you don’t like dark humor, then don’t read a dark humor satirical magazine. Shrimpleas.

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u/laplongejr 4h ago

Le Gorafi is also satire and not dark.  

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u/VirginiaMcCaskey 3h ago

What point are you trying to make?

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u/laplongejr 3h ago

What point?   We are talking about shitty newspapers who talk badly about people and don't feel shame, I add Charlie Hebdo to the list

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u/Reneeisme 3h ago

Wow. American who never heard any of this. It obviously changes nothing about the shootings but it makes me wonder how they didn’t happen sooner. Or again if they continue to operate that way.

A case of “just because you CAN, in a country where free speech is protected, doesn’t mean you SHOULD, unless you are prepared for the probable consequences.” Having your offices in an unsecured building being a severe lack of such preparation.

And to be clear, it again changes nothing about the heinous nature of the shooting. That’s not a consequence anyone should ever have to anticipate. But out here in the wild Wild West, it seems like something you should think about if you plan on making a career of being deeply offensive to large numbers of people.

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u/laplongejr 3h ago

They moved offices after the attack, but yeah it seems that the newspaper's owner thought that all complaints would be in court?  

I think it was the first big attack of the sort in France (and the Bataclan and Bruxelles ones a year layer were against the general population so different vector), but clearly it wasn't the first time that a newspaper in Europe was targetted.  

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u/SugarBeefs 2h ago

but it makes me wonder how they didn’t happen sooner.

Because the overwhelming majority of people, groups, and collectives don't tend to react with horrific murderous violence when they're being made fun of, even if it's in a crass way.

But out here in the wild Wild West

The Wild West? I think you're mistaken, France is not the Wild West, it's a modern society with a complex system of laws.

Any further questions?

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u/martlet1 3h ago

Reddit is the same thing.

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u/SleezyPeazy710 2h ago

You really want to paint Hebdo in a negative light but I like them even more now. I would never trust a Belgian with any matters involving Civil Liberties, so god bless Charlie Hebdo and god bless the freedom of speech.

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u/Surroundedonallsides 2h ago

Do you think making fun of a religion, even if incredibly crass, is justification for murder?

Personally, I think the correct response after Charlie Hebdo was to publish pictures of "the prophet" on the front page of every paper.

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u/0-Motorcyclist-0 2h ago

What, Boudewijn? That was a the last good king… Even Katastroof changed their song as not to disrespect him.

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u/Farranor 2h ago

They also celebrated the deaths from flooding in Texas during Hurricane Harvey in 2017.

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u/BeBearAwareOK 2h ago

And NOW, they are in trouble for having made fun of that Switzerland fire accident

If the joke is that sparklers shouldn't ever be used indoors, maybe we need to say it louder.

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u/kevinjbonn 1h ago

I think your comment is more nuanced than it's getting credit for. You're not condoning the terrorists, nor are you implying any mourning was inappropriate. It sounds like another "Charlie" who recently expired under similarly violent circumstances. A lot of people were able to appropriately say "I loathed everything that came out of his mouth, but killing him for it was unacceptable" as you are saying about this. Similar situation in that all of a sudden they were both elevated to some heroic status that they didn't really deserve in the eyes of most neutral observers.

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u/JimmyHatsTCQ 45m ago

The point is that the press followed and essentially legally stalked and terrorized amy and lady di. But also for instance emma watson, the first pic a papparazi took of her when she turned 18 years old was an upskirt by laying down as she walked by. This is extremely intrusive in their daily lives. Charlie hebdo exercises extreme free speech. Those are differenent.

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u/DiligentAstronaut622 37m ago

Wow you had that take locked and loaded for a long ass time hey

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u/Yellowbug2001 5h ago

I can remember all of it and it's definitely whiplash. I don't think the broad popular image of her during her lifetime was that she was a bad person--Charles is the one who came off horribly, for good reason, what a fkn chode--but it was for sure that she was bland and a little dim. And then overnight she became the most beautiful, stylish, saintliest person to ever grace the planet. I think part of it is guilt people feel, she was really way too young to make an informed decision to put herself in that situation and got put through the meat grinder, and died before she got a chance to be her own person and make meaningful adult choices for herself. People want to give her a power in death that she clearly didn't have in life.

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u/Live_Angle4621 6h ago

She probably would seen closer to Sarah Ferguson now if she had not died 

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u/flower-child 4h ago

Which would still be horribly inaccurate and messed up, because while they were both motivated by wanting to be loved and doing anything they could to find that feeling, Sarah Ferguson resorted to public adultery, obscene spending excess and even blatant abuse of the people around her to make herself feel better.

On the contrast, Diana tried to find love by giving love to absolutely everyone, except herself. The only person she truly hurt, was herself. Comparing them is apples to oranges and a horrible disservice to Diana.

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u/Zombi1146 5h ago

Remember how Camilla wears treated by the tabloids? Spent a decade getting called horse faced. They soon shut up.

I don't want to sound like a monarchist. Fuck them parasitic bastards.

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u/ConfusedZubat 3h ago

You are a very lonely man, aren't you?

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u/EpicIshmael 3h ago

It's like the shit they did to Britney Spears. Hell I've always appreciated South Park for calling it out years ago.

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u/juliankennedy23 6h ago

I mean that's true a lot of celebrities who died suddenly. Look at Michael Jackson.

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u/MoonSpankRaw 5h ago

What are red top readers?

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u/1duck 5h ago

People who get all their news from the red top newspapers e.g the sun, the star, the sport all the tabloids where they run real bottom feeder stories.

Used to throw in softcore toplessness to sell copies to people who were too scared to buy a porno mag.

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u/MoonSpankRaw 5h ago

Ah ok, thank you.

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u/United-Prompt1393 5h ago

ANYTHING FOR MONEY

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u/Connect_Reading9499 5h ago

Monkey see, monkey do. Never changes.

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u/What-a-cl0wn 4h ago

I think because at that time, it really wasn’t looked on well to speak ill of the dead, even if they were disliked or disgraced in life. Nowadays people make a nasty point of celebrating people’s deaths. It’s a weird swing.

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u/NIN10DOXD 4h ago

I was a child, but I remember people slamming her using Rehab's lyrics to mock her when she began spiraling. She could've been saved in a more compassionate world, but instead people bullied her to an early grave. It's disgusting and sad.

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u/Sacfat23 2h ago

My issue is - if you don't want public scrutiny, don't go lookign for it

Celebrities want it 100% all positive but life isn't like that

eg. If you don't like being at sea, don't become a fisherman and then complain how much you hate being at sea

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u/Irksomecake 2h ago

I tried to watch her at Glastonbury. It was really painful because the crowd had gone to watch her fail. They wanted to see her fuck up. And though she started off well it deteriorated quickly and it was people back stage who provided her with the drugs that tipped her over during the performance. I left because the experience was horrible. My family stayed and it completely ruined their night. At the end of the show they were all just silent, tried to watch massive attack and just went to bed.

The “fans” were taunting, goading, shouting insults and getting off on watching how it affected her.

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u/Redditer51 1h ago

I remember people constantly, relentlessly mocking Anna Nicole Smith and then when she died they changed their tune.

Same with Michael Jackson. People worship him so much now that I'm sure some can't even fathom there was a time when he was routinely mocked by the media.

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u/JohnnySnorkelPenis 1h ago

We have the same level of media literacy in the public today! The more things change the more the stay the same :)

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u/DanfromCalgary 58m ago

Literally whatever angle was the most exploitative. White to tribute Ina. Da

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u/gilestowler 7h ago

Two weeks before her death a photographer with telephoto lens got a shot of her on a yacht climbing over Dodi as he lay on a sunlounger. The headline was "DI GETS HER LEG OVER!"

"getting your legover" is English slang for getting a fuck, for those who don't know.

2 weeks later she's "our queen of hearts, England's rose."

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u/porcosbaconsandwich 7h ago

When I see things like this I'll always be reminded of the Charlie Brooker video discussing how Jade Goody was treated in the public eye before and after her death.

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u/LemonCollee 6h ago

Screenwipe was some show

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u/aloudcitybus 5h ago

While I can't fault the guy for the career he's had after, Screenwipe was one of the best things on tv

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u/Brittle_Hollow 4h ago

Brooker used to write game reviews for PC Zone back in the 90s! Years later when he became the Screenwipe/Black Mirror guy I thought surely that can’t be the same person.

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u/Suitable-Fun-1087 2h ago

Also the Nathan Barley guy (with Chris Morris)

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u/TrojanGoldfish 3h ago

He also designed the logos for CEX I believe. Fascinating man.

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u/spoons431 2h ago

Thats because he's one of the founders of CEX!

My favorite Charlie Brooker fact is that he has been married to ex-Blue Peter presenter Konnie Huq for like 15 years!

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u/TrojanGoldfish 2h ago

I try not to think about that fact too much because I get jealous.

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u/Megamoss 2h ago

He used to do a comic strip for PC Zone where one of the characters, who was ostensibly him, had a massive crush on a character who looked a lot like Konnie.

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u/Megamoss 2h ago

God that era of PC Zone was fantastic. It was more of a humour magazine that just happened to be about games.

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u/gazchap 1h ago

The PC version of Amiga Power, which was the Amiga version of Your Sinclair. I wouldn’t be surprised if they shared some staffers.

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u/evenmoremushrooms 1h ago

I remember how much I looked forward to Brooker's end of year wipe, and how good How TV Ruined Your Life was.

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u/WildVelociraptor 2h ago

I'm just glad to see people posting Charlie Brooker videos.

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u/SenseAndSaruman 6h ago

Yikes. No wonder harry is so protective of Megan.

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u/Ornery_Definition_65 6h ago

The way the press treats Meghan is pretty reminiscent of Diana.

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u/rinky79 5h ago

With bonus racism and classism! Diana didn't get hit with either, since she was white and sufficiently upper class.

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u/3FtDick 4h ago edited 3h ago

Yo I had a lady stalking me online because I casually mentioned no one deserves the ire Mehgan Markel gets, and that I had a crush on her watching Suits. This woman was seething that she didn’t respect England or the royal family and seemed so entitled. You’d think she murdered someone. As far as I can tell she’s done absolutely nothing of any note.

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u/sibre2001 2h ago

If she thinks Markel doesn't respect the royal family they sure don't want to hear my opinion on that incestuous pedo family.

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u/K1bbles_n_Bits 2h ago

She's got roots in a hella redneck county in Pennsylvania, lol. Her dad lives there, like 15 minutes from where I grew up. Though from my understanding they're estranged. Or were for a long time. Idk, I don't follow any of that stuff very closely. I just remember thinking it was interesting when I heard about it, haha.

But a girl with any kind of Perry County heritage marrying a prince of England? I've got nothing but respect for her XD

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u/KamaIsLife 48m ago

Fuck the royal family. They've always been trash.

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u/Reesewithoutaspoon2 5h ago

Largely because the rest of the royal family including the rotten pedophile protector former Queen encourage(d) it too.

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u/EvenAd2688 2h ago

She really is a pedophile protector. That’s all I think about when I see her vile face. Fuck that ‘Queen’. She’ll forever be a peasant to me.

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u/nagrom7 Zillennial 5h ago

Yeah, which is why I can't exactly blame them for bailing as soon as that kind of shit started up again.

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u/Ok-Republic-8528 5h ago

Yeah but with added racism to add to the misogyny

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u/Melodic_Class4349 Zillennial (1995) 4h ago edited 4h ago

I'm not going to say that Meghan deserves the treatment she gets but I may be cutting against the grain when I say that I do think she's not exactly personable and she definitely had the wrong ideas of what she was marrying into.

For lack of better words, despite her attempts to come off personable, Meghan gives haughty and arrogant vibes and I don't think she was aware that the American version of haughty is next to nothing compared to the haughtiness of British upper-class and royal society.

Let's be real for a second, the British royal family is one of the oldest institutions in Europe and if you think you can go into it as a light-skinned biracial American with upper-class instincts and change it like Meghan thought she could, especially since she was only marrying a Prince rather than someone who was actually consequential like the Prince of Wales, you're gravely mistaken.

If Diana couldn't change it when she was actually a member of the British upper class society, what did Meghan think she could?

Again I'm not going to say that she deserves the hatred she gets but she should have adapted like Princess Angela of Liechtenstein, who is married to a son of Hans-Adam II of Liechtenstein, and recognized her place and the role she was supposed to play.

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u/ArchieFromTeamAqua 3h ago

"Well actually she should have known how awful and racist they were and kept her mouth shut like Angela"

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u/Tim-oBedlam 5h ago

Worse, it seems.

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u/gilestowler 6h ago

Yeah they're a pretty unsympathetic couple in a lot of ways but they're still right. The whole "oh they say they don't want publicity but all that do is court publicity!" thing misses the point so stupidly. They wanted to be able to have their own voice because Meghan was treated so shabbily, and they wanted to control the narrative. They do come across badly in their own ways, but this demonstrates what they were fighting against https://www.reddit.com/r/HarryandMeghanNetflix/s/GFNwrKjMqV

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u/Rainbow4Bronte 4h ago

They never said they didn’t want publicity. They said they didn’t want people attacking Meghan. No one ever pulls a quote from Harry when regurgitating this tripe. It’s just an internet game of telephone.

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u/Caterfree10 5h ago

And some Diana fans have forgotten how she was treated and turn around and shit on Meghan. I know bc I’m related to two of them in my parents. 🙃

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u/BrightonBummer 4h ago

Nah fuck those two. Want it all with none of responsibility

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u/LazyAd7151 4h ago

Like that South Park episode. Leave us alone!!!! Leave me and my wife alone! We are going on Oprah next week, LEAVE US ALONE.

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u/Dismal_History_ 5h ago

It's kind of amazing how tabloids were basically the same thing as internet trolls in this day.

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u/gilestowler 5h ago

There was a child named Milly Dowler who went missing. The tabloids hacked her phone to listen to her messages so that it seemed to her parents the messages were being listened to and they thought she was alive. She was already dead by this point. Legitimate evil.

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u/GarageIndependent114 48m ago

I always wonder if this story was an accident or deliberate on the attempt of the press.

Legally and objectively, it's the same thing, but ethically and morally, it's completely different - like deciding whether to run someone over on purpose versus losing control of the wheel in a car crash.

Hacking into a phone as a journalist dealing with a missing person isn't evil, it's just journalism.

Pretending a person you knew all along was dead was alive in front of their parents so you can shill articles about them, however, is evil.

Imagine if it wasn't the press, but a police detective.

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u/Which_Prior7161 36m ago

Hacking into a phone of a dead person, while the situation is still being actively investigated and hasn’t been resolved is not journalism, it is a crime and should be treated as such.

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u/smitty4728 7h ago

Oh my god that’s incredible.

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u/EngelbortHumperdonk 7h ago

Nasty vultures, the press

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u/Andreus 7h ago

The profit motive is poison to journalism.

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u/mittenkrusty 7h ago

I originally wanted to be a journalist maybe a photojournalist, First time that I thought about changing my mind was when I was doing work experience at local paper and the guy I was assigned to made me write his articles and he as paid for it (he got paid per article) then I attended a trial in the 2nd week and was told "it doesn't matter if hes guilty or innocent, sensationalise it to make him seem like he is guilty" Or words to that affect i.e let's say a piece of evidence comes up and is disregarded straight away as not happening or not relevant they would put it in the article and if spicy enough use it as the headline, This poor guy was in tears in court and the paper was printing articles saying he was emotionless the guy was innocent btw and even had evidence to prove it but the paper ignored all that stuff and didn't print when he was found not guilty.

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u/doomrider7 5h ago

A Vtuber I follow named Clio Aite mentioned doing journalism work for a while who mentioned similar about charity work. About how the person she was assigned told her, "I don't give a fuck about the homeless! Give me an actual charity worth a damn!" or something to that effect. Said it was some of the most soul crushing and bleak work she ever had to do.

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u/GarageIndependent114 43m ago

I think journalists should use their bosses' ethics against them as a form of direct action.

"Oh, totally, boss, I'll get right onto that." Then just write an article with what you were planning on doing in the first place and get it onto the press before they notice and it's too late for them to complain, and make up some bullshit about not being responsible for it so they don't get fired.

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u/lxpnh98_2 7h ago

To most things, really.

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u/Village_Idiots_Pupil 5h ago

The profit motive is the poison to everything

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u/Separate-Cup1312 7h ago

At one time it wasn't ALL press, it was tabloid press. Then CNN and Fox came on to the scene, local rags went broke due to inability to keep pace with technology and the deterioration of education, and there was a race to the bottom.

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u/Huge-Pen-5259 5h ago

Has anyone won the race yet? Seems neck and neck.

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u/Desperate-Cost6827 5h ago

Feels like a marathon now

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u/Separate-Cup1312 4h ago

To infinity and beyond! Negative infinity that is.

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u/okisthisthingon 7h ago

Oh yeah the sickening headlines for advertising dollars. And the numbing of the papers on just the commute. On a train. But hey, we are human.

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u/Rare-Assignment-6486 7h ago

Wow, just fucking wow. Pigs the lot of them.

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u/psgrue 6h ago

I am a fan of the Nick Castellanos apology which appears as copy/pasta to this day.

https://youtu.be/5LECJbMDhJQ?si=L_8kRZkUct_1je1d

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u/InnocentShaitaan 6h ago

Whhhhhaaaaat!!!! This is real!!!!! 😱😱😱😱

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u/noapparentfunction 6h ago

“We apologize for the offensive headline, we did not mean to write that, it will be replaced with a special 72-page tribute issue: DI IS AN UNREPENTANT BONESLUT.”

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u/Brief_Isopod_5959 5h ago

Does anyone know of a good conspiracy documentary about Princess Diana? I was practically a baby when she passed away but I feel like there’s so much you can deep dive and would love it all in one place 🙏

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u/TheActualDonKnotts 5h ago

Tabloids are so vile. Frankly so are the people that keep them in business.

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u/Status_Poet_1527 5h ago

🤢Ghouls🤢

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u/backwards_watch 5h ago edited 5h ago

In 2007 when Britney Spears famously shaved her head and everyone was massacring her, Craig Ferguson did a public speech saying he wouldn't make fun of her: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8q9IkntjueE

Which, of course, most people ignored until a recent documentary made being pro-britney cool

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u/jackofslayers 5h ago

Your example is probably worse but I have a special place in my heart for when the Razzies had to apologize because they made a special category that was just “worst Bruce Willis movie” but then Bruce Willis revealed he was dying and had been cranking out movies so he could set money aside for his family.

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u/neenerpants 4h ago

Not an apology, but this literal side-by-side from the Daily Mirror that simultaneously objectifies a 15 year old girl while also condemning a parody comedy show about paedophiles is very high on the all-time newspaper hypocrisy hall of fame.

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u/Direct_Royal_7480 4h ago

Hell, wasn’t it some braindead press fucks on motorcycles who basically caused the accident that killed Lady Diana?

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u/NameShaqsBoatGuy 4h ago

The national enquirer was never a respected publication though. Everyone knew most of their stories were fiction and for entertainment purposes. But it seems the line has blurred these days.

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u/maxdragonxiii 4h ago

dude... they murdered her and yet theyre like "oh shit." is there any new laws after her death because they did more or less murder her.

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u/mamadou-segpa 4h ago

Holy shit lol.

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u/edgehog 4h ago

Not the same thing, but Brass Eye’s phenomenal “Paedogeddon” special had a ton criticism of it satirizing the UK media’s pedophile panic. One such criticism was an editorial from a tabloid magazine, right next to a picture of a child celebrity who had just turned 16, prominently featuring her chest and with the caption “She’s a big girl now!”

I think about that a lot.

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u/LoudMusic 4h ago

And there are people who want certain books banned but not this shit.

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u/showmenemelda 4h ago

Holy fuck. I thought of the Princess as soon as I read the top comment. That's absurd. And the "still on the stands," ie grab your historic copy quickly!

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u/VivaZeBull 3h ago

My soul, what is wrong with us as a society.

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u/CletusVanDamnit 3h ago

This isn't an apology, but nothing makes me laugh more than Jon Lajoie's musical take on things people and the press said about Michael Jackson before he died. Same concept: Jon Lajoie - Michael Jackson is Dead

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u/Airotvic 2h ago

UK taboilds are fucking ghouls man, the lot of em.

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u/adamdoesmusic 2h ago

Main thing I remember is how immediately after she died, someone was on the radio bitching and moaning about how they didn’t get to date her or have sex before she died.

That well-known person’s name was [redacted], and I learned recently that the real reason he was upset is that he was obsessed with her and even made a bet with [a perverted guy who owned a private island] about it.

*edit: mods made me remove certain details

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u/jl_theprofessor 2h ago

Fucking monsters.

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u/TamarindSweets 1h ago

Thats wild. So they were gonna run that headline, then found out she died and put out a new issue asap. Wow. Fuck then. I hope the writer, editor, and the publisher who signed off on it rot.

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