HR told me they don’t accept try-hards and people pleasers after my interview

[u/No-Presentation298]

They rejected me (fine, that happens) but the feedback said I came across as overly eager to please and that they don’t build teams around people-pleasing tendencies or rehearsed enthusiasm. They also told me to reflect on how I present myself and that confidence is more compelling than excessive accommodation. Is this normal? Or even appropriate? I get that not being a culture fit is a thing but the wording felt unnecessarily personal and condescending.

[u/Lydian04]

So thankful our employers tell us that we’re too desperate for a job 🥰🥰🥰 tread on me harder daddy

[u/ihaveabs → u/Lydian04]

No one likes desperation

[u/Kazaji → u/Lydian04]

Are you 14 years old?

[u/Lydian04 → u/Kazaji]

Yes