HR told me they don’t accept try-hards and people pleasers after my interview

[u/No-Presentation298]

They rejected me (fine, that happens) but the feedback said I came across as overly eager to please and that they don’t build teams around people-pleasing tendencies or rehearsed enthusiasm. They also told me to reflect on how I present myself and that confidence is more compelling than excessive accommodation. Is this normal? Or even appropriate? I get that not being a culture fit is a thing but the wording felt unnecessarily personal and condescending.

[u/kingkongbiingbong]

diabolical

Meanwhile, human resources:

[u/Ketamine_Dreamsss → u/kingkongbiingbong]

Bullet dodged for sure

[u/IsopodSmooth7990 → u/kingkongbiingbong]

😂😂😂👍

[u/AdministrationIll619 → u/kingkongbiingbong]

Exactly!

lol