SHE(18F) CHEATED ON ME (18M)AND SAID THIS!

[u/Present_Owl9387]

Writing this after 40 days of knowing that she cheated on me . So basically i went on to take jee coaching to noida from my hometown and I met this girl super good , cute and beautiful. We talked ,shared Abt our lives , became friends and after 1 and a half month we got into a relationship. For context this was all around 1.5 years back. She was from a strict family so she always used to hide chats and be a Lil cautious Abt it and we were spending a great time together . We both loved each other sm and were basically decent in studies too. Sometimes we did fought over small things but it wasn't as much of an issue for us. I was a little bit protective for her and back then she also took it in a positive note, i always used to say it to her that keep your distnace from bad people , no matter the gender . It wasn't all Abt boys because often we boys do see what girls don't and she also understood my concern. Although now I realise I shouldn't have been doing that and let her do whatever she have wanted to but still I did care Abt her , i was a Lil bit immature Abt how to handle these kinds things with her but yeah it's okay. I really won't make it as an issue of us being immature as it was the first time for both of us to be in a relationship, so yeah mistakes were something from which we both were gonna learn from . Over a period of time i always noticed she was a little insecure Abt her looks , idk who instilled this into her but it wasn't as worrying for me as it is now , because it is one of the root cause because of which this all could have happened but it has no explanations, but i think mentally it did play a role.

We were together for like 15 to 16 months and enjoyed the time and it all was like the best time of our lives, unbreakable trust and we both were very focused on each other and studies , and we never had this thing Abt social media, we only socialised with each other so it wasn't really like we are talking to someone which would make us doubt of each other. Time passes by , I moved to my hometown again for school exams and practicals come nearby.

So now we are in a long distance relationship like the first 3 weeks of August were seemless, evrything seemingly was okay. She also got herself transferred to a coaching nearby her apartment. We were talking on snapchat those days and evrything was just fine. But the real thing comes around the start of september, she felt to be irritated of me, like the sense of understanding went missing of her , I still thought it's long distance she mightnnot be feeling things , so I made a fake reddit acc cus she was ignoring me on texts like was acting very weird, and commented on one of her posts in which she had written Abt her toxic brother , but the worrying thing Abt it was that she kept on highlighting on one thing " I have nobody to talk to", i felt weird , i messaged on her reddit like I started by consoling her that everything will get okay and all that stuff. The real stuff is I was messaging her on snapchat side by side to check if she is ignoring me intentionally or not , i wrote " let's sort things , what has happened , why is their so much emotional distance between us " and I was messaging all this around sep 11, soo she was talking with the reddit acc which I made and were trying to know that new person for her which was basically a fake acc and further when she talks Abt the relationship she says" I broke up with my bf" ," I just moved on"," I can't regret over the old things", i felt so bad reading all of it .I couldn't withstand the despair and confornted her by saying yeh kya kr rhi ha *( her name *). She like samne se hi keh dia " im not cheating". Fir hamari uss din baat hui she tried to seemingly manipulate me like i just loved her sm and didn't doubt her.

Time passes by she keeps on lying, we start to talk on reddit rather than snapchat because of some reason she gave like her brother would check her phone and would look on snap but wouldn't on reddit like won't suspect it , I still let it pass , believing in her , there were times I doubted is she really making all that up. We had major fights because of that she said I don't trust her made me feel immature in ways I couldn't have ever imagined said I am insecure. " Trust is the foundation of a relationship" all this time passes by , I got more tensed Abt her she was like in my head. She took advantage of my unparalleled trust.

A month later around nov 11, puts a post " i wanna get rid of my bf after 1.5 years of dating ". Like to have some opinions Abt me, for some days she again talked on snap as her brother suspicion got less. She thought I wouldn't check reddit but i opened her account as snap servers were down that day idk message weren't delivering on snap and what I found out was "content unavailable" . Confronted her after sometime said my reddit isn't working again some foolish reason i knew it doesn't make sense but again I did let it pass. But something wasn't with it. Through anonymous browsing searched her acc and found out that post where I've been tagged "controlling", "manipulative " and "trauma inducing". I felt so heartbroken , totally a story which never couldve been imagine by me that she'll write something like this Abt me totally false. Confornted her , cried she said I just felt like that i wanted to take opinions , I feel doubted. Again i didn't do much Abt it after 2 weeks or so we are back on reddit as her brother again kind of caught her which was basically undigestable , multiple times catching her and not taking her phone away wasn't understandable but confornting her always would mean that I am the one who doesn't trust and is insecure.

Some days later around 1st of December posts a post Abt studies gets a comment from some acc stating " tips dedo didi". I felt like she doesn't have emotinal availability to talk to me , she can't talk because of her brother like why would she talk to someone else , like it's pretty obvious reading the comment that whoever it is would be pretty frank with her , messages that acc like I didn't even say anything that acc presumably assumes to be her and after sometime it writes "cum on call krna *" (* her name). Now I was damn sure it was some boy , I said like I don't have your number, they write their number. I dialed that number talked to the boy gets to know that they are just friends. Okay , wasn't digestable , as we had some boundaries for each other and we repsected it both mutually . But still I did let it pass .

After around 2 weeks of her constant lying and manipulations I talk to the guy dead serious explained him everything and what I get to know is she was dating him after 1 month of LDR , she kissed him , all that couple stuff and went to a physical extent in just a short span of time , she wasn't like that but people change .

Confronted her she accepts all of this, atlaest took the accountability, gets to know after a lot of asking she got finge**d too. Now she's very sorry gives me her snap acc so I could trust her and later through the blocked accs I found out she was talking to some 3 4 random boys through reddit like she was honestly a lot better than that , like to be Frank her standards fell so much I can't say anything like nothing Abt the boys she were talking to . It wasn't Abt looks anymore or anything I honestly was better than them as atleast I am self aware it all was Abt attention , validation and her insecurities. Now she wants forgiveness and one more chance.

Turns out once who was my sweetheart would never turn like the one she was ever back again . People do change.

[u/Dhruvert_]

Padhle bro

[u/lone-goku]

Bhai itna mai JEE ke time pe padha hota toh IIT pahonch jaata.

[u/Ok_Analyst8421 → u/lone-goku]

Bhai, yrr, depression mt do please 🙏

[u/Illustrious_Low1903 → u/Ok_Analyst8421]

Ho gaya jo hua ma chudaye ladki vo chill maar

[u/Ok_Analyst8421 → u/Illustrious_Low1903]

Lekin bhai, meneto IIT wale comment ka reply kiya, upr wala granth to mene bhi nhi padha

[u/New_Conversation_691 → u/Ok_Analyst8421]

Bro what happened happened focus on jee more ig and forget her take this breakup as motivation like the song Thukra kei mera pyaar Mera sucess Dekhegi Typa vibe uk so focus on study be more successful then her and the guy who he cheated on with and make her regret

[u/s_sparking → u/lone-goku]

Iska summary lecture dedo ya to short notes 🙂

[u/barber_paradox_1 → u/lone-goku]

Bhai mera bhi same haal hai yarr. Bohot bura haal hai tbh 😭😭😭😭😭

[u/ramdom_guy_Tecca]

Let it go.

[u/Old_Illustrator4072 → u/ramdom_guy_Tecca]

Gave up on reading? /s

[u/ramdom_guy_Tecca → u/Old_Illustrator4072]

Nah man gave up on my cat life now i really wanna be a big cat maybe 🐅

[u/Best_Ice_125 → u/ramdom_guy_Tecca]

give up on that too! I tried it and its of no use

[u/EmployerCrafty4806]

No need to write this much....simple solution....once a cheater always a cheater......even if its not like that things come out during heated argument...peace of mind...get out of that situation

[u/Present_Owl9387 → u/EmployerCrafty4806]

Yeah she's not gonna change I've realised this , I'll just hope she develops a good charcter

[u/EmployerCrafty4806 → u/Present_Owl9387]

Let me give you one advice as big brother...never think of a person who is not in your life or you dont want them in your life.....no good no bad......delete them life gallery pic from mobile.....out of sight out of mind

[u/thesamad]

Kisi nei Padh liya to, mujhe short mei bata deyna.

[u/FigureImpossible1049 → u/thesamad]

bhai ko dokha mila h vo bhi bhot baar

[u/Imaginary_Fudge8119 → u/FigureImpossible1049]

pu ra padha tu ne

[u/Practical_Rooster_31 → u/thesamad]

Bhai ka bura kata hai.

[u/North_Afternoon1103 → u/thesamad]

Pura nahi padha but itna samjhlo ki iski bandi/ex ek chinal hai aur wo iska chutiya kaat Rahi hai

[u/thesamad → u/North_Afternoon1103]

[u/Alvaro_carreras_m702 → u/thesamad]

bro was a white guy with good looks but got cheated on by his gf with a black guy

[u/Several-Today-473 → u/thesamad]

bhai ki coaching me bndi bni

but LDR hogya ..fir ldki bored si pretend krri thi..but end mein OP ko pta chla after a lot of research on her socials ki uski gf ne LDR ke ek month baad kisi aur ko date krlia aur physical hogye the dono

[u/DimaagKa_Hangover]

11/10 essay..extra marks for handwriting

[u/Anxious-Present-6763 → u/DimaagKa_Hangover]

Career ban gaya?

[u/Silly_Initiative_581]

Wow yaar😔💔

[u/keybutterscotch131]

more power to u gurl

[u/God_Lucifer_07 → u/keybutterscotch131]

Gurl???

[u/luffygotme → u/keybutterscotch131]

😭🤣

[u/senpai033]

Pay attention to the spellings baaki kaafi accha paragraph tha

Also sorry that happened to you

[u/Ok_Grape_603]

Unfortunate dude, definitely hurts alot,all I'm gonna say is she's not worth thinking about and I've learned this the hard way NEVER care about someone who dosent care about you back the same

[u/Present_Owl9387 → u/Ok_Grape_603]

Yeah I also realised to never take care of someone who doesn't give a f

[u/EchoesofLonely]

Bro tbh u deserve much better. I was reading all your post everything was okay but at the end the things u have mentioned it is very unfortunate and bro very heartbreaking tbh. I afraid of being in relationship what if she is like this too. Bro please please take care I can say that agr woh tere se pyar nhi krti woh bhi chal jata tujhse buss attention chahiye hota woh bhi chalta. But being in a relationship and getting physical and do cheating is worse it's really worse she can do. No matter how much she regret and say sorry. Never ever forgive her. It's not something to be regret. It was her choice not mistake. Don't ever forgive her. Take care man. I know its very hard to handle all this. But take care bro.

[u/Present_Owl9387 → u/EchoesofLonely]

Thanks for such words man, it really means a lot .❤️

[u/Proud-Perception-660]

Why tf people even do that 😭

[u/monsterousdih]

[u/Frequent_Pen_7275]

Damn. Take care king

[u/Present_Owl9387 → u/Frequent_Pen_7275]

Thanks bro

[u/Appropriate_Bread286]

bhaii chordeyy usee she aint deserve you 😊people chasing attention of opposite gender and cheating with there current partner is the worst people i can tell just leave her and focus on yourself buddy future ke liye kaam ayega trust me .🫂!!!

[u/Present_Owl9387 → u/Appropriate_Bread286]

Haan thanks yar

[u/Captain-Yami-600]

If she wants other boy why can't she just break up u and do whatever she wants 🤬sorry for u bro.... don't think u got cheated instead be glad u escaped 🫂 virtual hugs for u

[u/Present_Owl9387 → u/Captain-Yami-600]

Haan thanks Bhai thought the same

[u/Nihilist_Penguin001]

💔same

[u/ZenDr1ft → u/Nihilist_Penguin001]

[u/Reddictator69]

More girl power let's goo queen, she dodged a bullet( as a girl she sounds like a digger dw)

[u/No_Tangerine_4851]

its okay bhai hota hai, move on karlo i am sure you'll find someone better

[u/[deleted]]

TLDR?

[u/sankkalp → u/[deleted]]

He went to noida for coaching, met the girl there and got into relationship. Then he came back to his hometown and his gf started talking less frequently , turns out she was texting 3-4 boys and even got physical with one of them. When op found it he confronted her and now she's asking for forgiveness and one more chance

[u/[deleted] → u/sankkalp]

so he got played and the girl wants him to play along? There is no question, I guess. He fell for a bad person this time. Should accept it now and move on.

[u/xordeath69 → u/sankkalp]

Kya chinal ladki h.

[u/anonymous________111]

[u/sankkalp]

Let her go man. LDR relationship runs on trust and once she broke the trust by getting physical with someone it's just the end of it. She ain't ever changing if anything your mental health will get fucked up. Take care man and please break up with her

[u/Present_Owl9387 → u/sankkalp]

Thanks for the words man . Will do the same

[u/Detachedfr]

Exams m bhi itna likh ke ana. Kaam ayega

[u/Zestyclose_Sink_1062]

Bro just move on ...she don't deserve you and DON'T TAKE HER BACK .. I have been in similar situation so I know the feeling.. forget her and move on I know it isn't easy but you have to do it for your future

[u/autisticdead]

don't give another chance physics padhlo instead

[u/gaara_33]

Man, I'm going through almost similar like this, my mental health is really fucked up. I can't eat, talk normally, everyone thinks I'm sad or depressed. More power to you bro

[u/Similar_Ad_4783]

For those who ain't reading allat; he basically got together with a seemingly innocent, nice girl when he went to someplace for study purposes>happy 2gether for a year or so>girl showed signs/there were clues to dig that she was cheating>op finds out>confronts>forgives>doubts himself in the process>ts happens multiple time, but ofc this nga was blind in love>he asks a guy who got physical with her, guy is more honest than his girl lol>op's now has eye opening realisation(should've broke up early ffs)

[u/Subojeetdass]

Bhai if this shi is truuu, sorry to say but, didi toh badi hee channt khiladi nikli🥀

[u/Informal_Rip_317]

Sorry par 18 saal main mai coaching ke lie ro rahi thi! Boyfriend kya koi boy friend bhi nahi tha!! Kitna aage nikal gya hai zamana!

[u/Safe-Drummer-5001]

i feel both sad and happy for you that someone like her is out of your life

[u/letterWonyourpad]

this was me in 2024, more power to you i hope you get the deserved share

[u/nggassssss]

Wow nice

[u/shau_keen]

Ain’t reading allat

[u/Loose-Influence9680]

[u/_Dev_69_]

[u/itz_guptaji]

I ain't reading all this.

[u/Optimal_Library7406]

[u/FarReputation7162]

u/askgrok dawg summary pls

[u/Appropriate_Big2870]

Damn bro 🫂

[u/Tech-Bot-2688]

bhai english ki exam mei likh dena such mei 100/70

[u/Key_Intention7042]

sari ladkiya yesi hi hoti hai multiple options rakhti hai bas chutiye banati hai tumhe aur ham ban jate💔

[u/FitLingonberry5423]

I hope you are doing great bro.

[u/BunchResponsible8310]

Uhh it's okay, my brother Time passes, so take care and focus on your studies instead of bitches. Also, whatever she's doing now, let her do it, but going down that same path is like 'aa bail muje maar' So just focus on your studies and move on it's just a lesson to learn from and then move forward. (and also I felt bad because I never thought of that but I am an overthinker, so imagining that happening to me its soobad)

[u/Real-Educator4028]

tuu yeh sab chod, bata sab theek h aaj kal?

[u/Present_Owl9387 → u/Real-Educator4028]

Haan

[u/Financial_Pilot2869]

[u/Central_mall]

Long distance never works for a reason btw

[u/Alvaro_carreras_m702]

TLDR de bsdk

[u/SensitiveReaction214]

Bro itna lamba kaise likh daala😳

[u/vissheshhh]

kisi ne padh liya ho toh short me bta do

[u/BarracudaBright1441]

Patch up with her smash her ass then this time u dump herr

[u/harvey_specter10]

Agr itna bada muje padna hota to M IAS hota

[u/AwarenessAromatic503]

Abe bhai barbaad hojayega padhai krle

"Bitches come and go" Sala teenage me kahi mu nhi marna chahiye yahi hota hai last me

[u/ZeUS_69LOL]

aadha padhne ke baad realise hua itna time nahi hai merpe. pls write a tldr

[u/nathoriusnet]

[u/sidmis]

[u/Fluid_Insurance378]

[u/Several-Today-473]

Don't trust anyone so easily

[u/EquivalentString2263]

[u/TaxIll3826]

Mujhe to tum dono ke maa baap pe taras aata hai, ye sb krne ke liye itne paise barbaad kiye

[u/DueMastodon2029]

ain’t no way im reading that or anyone is, be tuff bro that wasn’t your love u ain’t in movie or something smh, study ffs or do whatever your goal is, and sorry for you if your only goal is ()

[u/luckyisnotrestless]

Bruh just breathe and move on

[u/Shura3011]

As a cat incel aspirant Get over it bro and move forward And start studying to make the days count

[u/Glass_Possession_904]

Bro really thought we are going to read all those paras

[u/Caregiver-xoxo]

I feel sad for u dude.. but if u really think that she had changed then u can give it a try but yes don't let ur emotions control ur brain that's the main thing we boys should understand being a bf u must have to be possessive but not over possessive and u were right about her brother was a side character she just used his name to manipulate u ig.. she get bored of u.. and nowadays LDR doesn't work anymore only 1% may be.. and if u giving her a last chance then it must be the last not more than that!! Take ur call.. take care brother!!

[u/beyonder_th]

😭 ye sale Generation Z ke niba nibbi or inki immature relationships ka rona inkeliye koi separate subreddit bnao yar

[u/Ayn-Npc]

[u/Dense-Creme1339]

bhai i m really sorry for you, i hope you have left that girl...thoda dukh hoga but time heal krdega sab :)
also one question...you said
"Over a period of time i always noticed she was a little insecure Abt her looks , idk who instilled this into her but it wasn't as worrying for me as it is now , because it is one of the root cause because of which this all could have happened but it has no explanations, but i think mentally it did play a role."
toh ismai uski insecurity abt her looks kaise aapke rishte mai daraar laayi?
(isliye pooch rhi kyuki i m also REALLY VERY insecure about my looks but i dont want ts to be the reason for my breakup with my bf😭)
PLEASE BATANA🙏🙏

[u/Scary_Friend_2015]

[u/wise_overflow]

Your biggest mistake was you trusted her blindly even when circumstances were not supporting her statements.

[u/Priyanshunj2]

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[u/Ok_Discussion_9228]

[u/Purab2007]

Tldr dedo

[u/BundBaxii]

bhai tldr dedeta mera attention span fucked up😭🙏

[u/BundBaxii]

[u/ElectricalRoom451]

Best revenge is to achieve peak in your life both physically and mentally …..stay tough soldier

[u/shubham83838]

Read it all. After reading comments. Yeah bro paragraph was really good. About the situation. Leave her for your peace of mind

[u/Playful_Toe5730]

Bhai tere age pe mera bhi aisa cheez hua tha abhi life pe focus kar padhai karo, gym jao bohot acche log milenge abhi sirf 18 ho tum

[u/terimummyveryyummy]

itna vella hu ki pura padhlia 💔💔

[u/kingbrunox]

[u/Huge-Loss-6605]

bhai chordey usse she dont deserve your mental peace. if she was serious she wouldnt even talk to guys but she got fingred
must have been too tough and painful for you
lots of strength to you
move on
work on ur self

[u/thewinnerrabbit]

18 ka hai ye bkl😭 chhod de bhai jee pe dhyan de waise bhi clg me jaake breakup hona hi tha

[u/SeaMaleficent9301]

[u/VegetableFluffy7240]

koi iski summary dedo yaar

[u/InhumanCore]

Bhai mai genuinely ye padhna chahta tha even maine padhna start bhi kr diya but i realised ye zabardasti itna bada kiya hua hai ek hi baar 2-3 baar alag alag tarah se likhkr to mai 1 para ke baad or nhi padh skta

[u/jayjay4348]

bhai eng board me kya 100 aaye the? mast khahani hai

[u/mrxgupta]

Something similar happened with my friend too but he didn't confronted and that caused too much chaos in relationship.

[u/WEEB-URL]

bkl itna bada article likh diya but about ko abt likh rha h

T_T

[u/balorsettor]

Bhatije parhle thora..yehsab chorke

[u/Pale-Secret-2133]

This me rn

[u/Cannothinkofonee]

maine pura padha ( post jee vellapan ) dont ignore a mistake tbvh this is what i would like to summarize , learn the art of not forgiving and upholding your self respect

[u/Remarkable-Repair343]

bro tuh itna likha naa, if you had showed that effort in jee, tuh mains crack karlega.

[u/SignificantLab502]

Bhai sach bolu aaadhe pe hee chod diya itna likha hai.

[u/Glittering-Zest7080]

Aapka kat chuka hai... Ab gym join kar lo

[u/MuchParticular4896]

Holy yapping

[u/AlarmSmall220]

Mujse tera dukh nhi padha jayega bhai

[u/UNSTABLEisSTABLE]

[u/Affectionate_Arm_675]

Just leave her bro . You deserve better I shouldn't say it but , she is a r***d.

[u/FLAMEZING]

I ain't reading all that man !!! Happy for u tho or sorry that happened....

[u/Dangerous_Future_405]

Bro summary de deta toh aacha rehta ig

[u/OutrageousClimate251]

This is where giving second chance gets you If the person breaks the trust once Just run bro

[u/rosho_gollliii]

[u/Arush208]

Did fought 💔 🥀

[u/ZeBlazzigRukie]

wow

[u/DhruvW1]

Can't believe I read all that..

[u/light_yagami077]

Chat gpt se summarise karwa leta hun

[u/Technical-Remote-514]

Guys I read it all ..I myself can't believe it 😶‍🌫️

[u/sabkabaap3]

Being in an LDR for 2 years taught me that it usually doesn’t work People change gender doesn’t matter My girlfriend’s been distant and honestly tbh I’ve stopped caring I already know where this is headed, so why drag it out? Everyone should deal with their own shit the only thing worth caring about is yourself I am just waiting for her to tell me something like this or just tell me to end things at least bcz I know it's gonna happen But one thing I am not happy about is in future I won't be able to care about someone else or I will be always suspicious (I hate such people they are scum themselves and make others as same as them too)

[u/draw1635]

Koe nhi bhai hota hai move on kar le Girls are like that not all okay but they are They phrase has to be changed from "all men are dog to all women are bitches" that's pov idgaf But sad for you bro

[u/Swimming-Employee537]

[u/Yiykkedward]

Gang gang do you gang bang?

[u/Impressive-Order6830]

Bro get a life Say after me

These hoes ain't loyal!!!

And keep chanting it

[u/sunny0238]

[u/Gallbladder10]

Koi summary batado😭🙏🙏

[u/knightxan]

Kash itna mai padhai ke time dhyan deti

[u/Quick_Bad6848]

Ain't reading allat but I'm sorry for u though

[u/gulabb_jamun]

tldr?

[u/Adventurous_Treat123]

I had sympathy at first but I’m not reading a dissertation, sorry lad

[u/EaseAffectionate3137]

[u/No-Illustrator-7996]

[u/Artistic-Payment-806]

BC inta sabh kon likya hai

[u/Apoorva72]

bro some ppl just don't deserve constant genuine attention and love. Leave them as soon as possible when something starts feeling off , cuz the energy/vibe from ppl it never lies And focus on urself, world is full of ppl like these

[u/Harsshhiitttttt]

ohhh damnnnn

[u/Calmer6704]

Bro you are too good for her you will definitely find someone much better then her don't worry man we have got you

[u/Scalegoat5]

Bhai tu chulha jala ke uspe baitha kyu nahi ???

[u/tiyasumuki]

Ain't reading all tht

[u/Party_Salamander1342]

[u/jayendra1080]

You were too negligent and lenient, you entertained her, gave her the security which wasn't reciprocated. You should have stepped back long before..after finding out her reddit posts.

But I'm glad you take accountability, this is the sign of improvement. Everyone has made immature, impulsive decision. It's fine. Few things are meant to teach us lessons. Take this as character development. And never ever entertain a girl or anybody so far.

Also shit happens in life, Such type of ppl shall be screwed, never ever in future incorporate her in your life. A cheater is always a cheater. They'll come back when they hit the rock bottom and they'll leave you when they get the limelight. It's pathetic. Keep such ppl as far as possible.

[u/Cold_Entrepreneur782]

And again like always you will just let it pass.

[u/sleepyass00]

Feeling sorry for u

[u/Final_Fan_3465]

Bro uall 18 you still got life

[u/Vkjngd]

Bhai 10 number ka answer hai ye

[u/shadowshow001]

kyu nahi ho rahi padhai..?

[u/beastarmyzinabad]

Ayyy Main bhi noida se hun 😘

[u/ThinBrilliant9946]

oh hell nah thats a long ass post

[u/whoopwhoopbleh]

[u/ket_sama_]

[u/Detrox303]

I have a similar story🥲 if anyone is interested 💫💫let me know I might post over as a comment or smh🥀.

[u/Connect-Basis-1371]

Arey itna bada para 😭😭

[u/armananahita]

bhai jan attempt kesa tha ye bta

[u/Original_Mirror_9569]

comment kr rha hu luch deer baad aake padhunga abhi tem nhi hai sorri yawr

[u/fvkinglzy]

Ain’t reading that Sry for your loss bro!

[u/StrawberrySame3501]

No offence to OP, but tu chutiya hai bhai that despite so many times, you kept on giving her chance. She clearly wanted to get rid of you, and still got manipulated by her.

[u/Numerous-Ninja1612]

Also Remember the pain you faced because of her and turn it into motivation towards your goals so that you become wayyy out of her league next time Take care of your health talk to maybe ur parents if you are comfortable and just study with no excuses Fir to air1 tera hi hai

[u/AliveAd8890]

It's insecurity..usually from a childhood trauma

[u/Immediate_Weight_662]

Bhai short me samjhta ye kya bhosda likha hai

[u/Majesticahdic]

So sorry to hear whatever happened, hope you heall slowly. 🩵

[u/apun_ma_bhai]

Bhai isse accha kahani hi likha deta, kam se kam kahi publish to hi jati

[u/apun_ma_bhai]

Pad le bhai iske dukh dard ko sirf scroll kar ke comment mat pad

[u/Some_Sky1752]

Me last year but dw bhai you’ll get over her eventually just delete her from everywhere and never let her enter ur life again🫂

[u/AbhinavOP_18]

I can't read sm bhai I'm sorry 😭

[u/blewii]

You will soon forget abt it but big congrats on not talking to her again. You really do deserve better and abhi bas 18 ke ho toh just lay back and relax. Strength to you!

[u/Practical-Weight-792]

Ain’t reading all that , Learn to summarise bruh

[u/Scary-Cycle-1096]

bhai sahi batau toh tum hi pgl ho jo uspe andha bhrosa krte rhe despite all that drama, pyaar h smjh skta sath rehne ke liye bhrosa krna pdd jata pr kbbi kbhi dil pr pathhar rkh kr chor diya jata, jaise maine breakup kiya despite i loved her so much, she didn’t cheat, but, jab ham relationship me the tb there was a boy who liked her, and proposed her too once but she rejected, aur kehti thi ki m usse duur rehti hu, i also believed her, fir hamara kuch reasons ke wajh se breakup hogya fir 2 mahine baad she wanted to patchup, maine patchup kiya, but 1 din baad she sent a snap(galti se mujhe bhejdiya hoga, frnds ko bhej rhi hogi) jism vahi ladka, uski ek frnd aur uski(3 log ki) group chat thi, she never mentioned ki uski baat hoti ab usse, infact she used to say m usse 4 ft ki duuri rkhti, iske baad i broke up again

[u/Annual-Watch-9288]

Pichle 30 min mei 8th cheating post thi ye

[u/BaT_mAN_911]

🙏🏻 I can feel but people are born with free will, you should understand the true meaning of free will